If you had to select one positive emotion, which would you choose? For many, the most nourishing, powerful, and transformative emotional state is undoubtedly love. For others, it’s calm, the experience of balance and absolute satisfaction when life, just for a moment, isn’t difficult or stressful.
However, in reality, the entire spectrum of emotions is basic, decisive, and important for you, as a human being. Those with positive valence act as your daily engine and the light that illuminates your motivation, hope, and connection with your environment. Emotions like passion, inspiration, curiosity, and joy. Who wouldn’t want to cuddle up to them forever?
Of course, that isn’t possible and on a daily basis, you might experience sadness, anguish, and disappointment to put your abilities to adapt to the test. That said, understanding the essence of the most gratifying emotional states teaches you how to promote and awaken them in you to achieve positive mental well-being.
“Just as day lilies retract when sunlight fades, so do our minds when positivity fades.”
The top ten positive emotions
One of the leading experts in the field of positive psychology is Barbara Fredrickson. In fact, it could be said that it’s thanks to her research, that the field of positive emotions was addressed for the first time in a scientific and objective way. Fredrickson is a professor at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill (USA),
Indeed, until the early 1990s, no one had studied the functions and objectives of these positive emotions. Dr. Fredrickson demonstrated that they’re key to developing new learning, establishing new knowledge and behaviors, and consolidating our relationships.
Positive emotions are the spark that makes life possible and that consolidates well-being and human growth. They act as a cognitive impulse that facilitates the power to build and transform reality. In a study published in 2021, the most important positive emotions were detailed, those that should be promoted. They’re as follows:
1. Joy, the ability to experience pleasure
What gives you pleasure, enjoyment, delight, and satisfaction? Joy. It’s the opposite of pain and is the emotional state that brings you fulfillment and happiness. However, it’s a brief state, rather like the feeling a child experiences when eating an ice cream. Or, the kind you experience when reading a book or having sex. These are simple, basic, and enriching activities that make you experience a rewarding feeling of well-being.
2. Gratitude, a bow to well-being
It may come as a surprise, but gratitude is a primary skill for developing and maintaining optimal levels of satisfaction, quality of life, and emotional well-being. Thanks to this experience, you appreciate everything from the quality of your relationships to your own existence in the world.
So ask yourself… What are you feeling grateful for today?
“Positive emotions open our hearts and minds, make us more receptive and more creative.”
3. Serenity, inner calm
We mentioned serenity earlier. It’s certainly one of the most important positive emotions. It’s a sensation charged with harmony, a state of mind in which nothing external or internal alters you or brings suffering.
This emotion is one of the most longed-for because the serene mind is the one that knows how to deal with anxiety, the one that doesn’t suffer the disturbance of excessive worries.
4. Interest in the world, life, and yourself
Barbara Fredrickson highlights in her work the importance of this emotion as a key to our development and evolution. No learning will be consolidated if there was previously no interest in discovering certain areas or new information.
An interested mind pushes the individual toward exploration. It motivates them and makes them move to broaden their perspectives and knowledge.
5. Hope, the confidence in tomorrow
Hopeful hearts and minds aren’t naive. Hope goes beyond optimism. If you cling to hope and cultivate it daily, it doesn’t mean that you expect everything fate brings your way will be positive. It makes you believe that whatever is to come will make sense and you’ll be able to face it. In effect, you trust that, despite the fact that the world is an uncertain place, tomorrow will be better.
6. Pride, the feeling of being valuable
Among the most important positive emotions that you should cultivate and promote is pride. Far from seeing it as the negative emotion from which egoism or narcissism emerges, it should be understood from a more adjusted perspective. After all, there’s nothing boastful about someone who’s proud of their achievements, recognizes their skills, and makes them serve them effectively.
In fact, this emotion gives muscle to self-esteem by acting as a validator of the self.
7. Amusement, the power of humor
You experience amusement when you find something humorous. It might be a joke or just thinking how strange the world is that we live in. Moreover, humor helps you connect with others and a shared sense of amusement helps you bond socially. It means you don’t take life too seriously. In fact, being able to laugh at your own mistakes is one of the keys to happiness.
8. Inspiration, the reason for living
Inspiration is the ability to find objectives, concepts, and references that instill curiosity, and passion in you. It also gives you the desire to experiment, learn, imitate, and even transcend. It moves you to act and transmits energy, strength, and new interests with which to update yourself and continue moving forward.
Research conducted by psychologists Todd M. Thrash and Andrew J. Elliot claims that inspiration acts as a decisive construct for well-being.
9. Awe, the appreciation of creativity
You feel awe when you see something magical, like a beautiful sunset or landscape. Or, when you look at a wonderful painting and marvel at the artist’s skill. Awe is the appreciation of creativity, It can also have a spiritual element when you wonder about the universe. It signifies being open to new experiences. Of thinking of the world around you and feeling completely overwhelmed at its beauty.
“Positive emotions, such as love, joy, and gratitude, promote new and creative actions, ideas, and social bonds.”
10. Love, the engine that moves the world
What do you think is the most important positive emotion? Last on Fredrickson’s list is love, not because it’s the least relevant, but quite the opposite in fact. Love is the energy that makes your heart beat, and makes you grow, and feel strong and valuable. Without this vital force, you’d be lost. Moreover, it’s not enough to receive it, you must also know how to offer it.
Love is the social glue that consolidates your relationships. It’s also the glass from which you look at the world and all its details. Only those who observe life from a position of love are capable of always giving the best of themselves. This, as you well know, has a direct impact on your physical and emotional well-being.
So, what if you were to start to focus on promoting your positive emotional states a little more? The benefits will be undoubted.
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